Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Respect your friends

Respect your friends


How many straight boys are going to give it up for the gay boy just because he delivers his pizza,
gets drunk or answers the door in his tightie whities?

Sexuality is something that we consider personal and sacred. As gay men we have been very
vocal about the dignity of our sexuality but do we offer the same courtesy to our straight counterparts? How many of us have been out with friends and thrown around comments
like “just give me 5 minutes with him” and “he’s a screaming bottom, he just doesn’t
know it yet”. Isn’t that the same as a straight guy saying “maybe you just haven’t met
the right girl”, or the straight boy telling the lesbian “you just haven’t had me yet”.
Where is our indignation here?

Amidst all the jokes and the puns there is the very real issue that respect for an others
sexuality is something that should extend to all of us. We can’t demand recognition of
the dignity of our sexuality and then sit back and snicker at the hot straight boy who
“just doesn’t know he loves dick yet” over our lattes.

The question of whether or not to tell your straight mate you have a crush on him is
something that we all need to think long and hard about. Do we believe that confessing
our crush will somehow result in the object of our affection suddenly coming over
all curious and hopping in to the sack?, because quite simply if we believe that you
can’t “turn Gay” then we should also respect that our straight mates can’t “turn Gay”
either. Unrequited love sucks but wishful thinking doesn’t work either.

Respect your friends whatever their sexuality is and be realistic about your feelings
and where they might lead.

Eye Candy

Peter Fleming
from Bel Ami
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Animated Gif Theatre

Animated Gif Theatre
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Humility

Humility
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Humility is the only true wisdom
by which we prepare our minds
for all the possible changes of life.

~George Arliss

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True humility is intelligent self respect which keeps us from thinking too highly or too meanly of ourselves. It makes us modest by reminding us how far we have come short of what we can be.

~Ralph W. Sockman

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Humility is at the equilibrium of ego.
When we’re on center,
we manage our ego rather than it managing use.

~Steve Smith

~*~

“The humble person is open to being corrected, whereas the arrogant is clearly closed to it. Proud people are supremely confident in their own opinions and insights. No one can admonish them successfully: not a peer, not a local superior, not even the pope himself. They know - and that is the end of the matter. Filled as they are with their own views, the arrogant lack the capacity to see another view.”

~Thomas Dubay


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The Art of Male Perfection ~ Faces

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Smile of the Day!

Fratman Wood

Jackson and Micky
from Fratmen
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